She Has No Lack Of Suitors, But
Is Her Marriage Luck Favorable?
Most of the time, we
believe that attractive women have great marriages. They are
able to choose the right man because after all, they have so
many potential suitors. That may be true in a certain sense, but
ultimately, luck and astrology still play a role. Take Amanda's
case for example, she has been in the dating game since her
teens. There was even a year when 6 guys were trying to win her
heart simultaneously.
She got married a few years ago, but now, she is wondering if her
marriage will last. Initially, she wanted to do compatibility
test, but since she is asking about her own marriage luck, I feel
that the love compatibility test is not necessary. The only time
we do a love compatibility test is because we want to know how
compatible we are with a specific person.
If one person fails, we can find another. But when it comes to
personal romance luck, no matter who the partner is, the results
will more or less be the same, unless this person takes steps to
enhance his or her own romance luck.
Without further delay, let's look at Amanda's birth chart and see
what we can decipher from it. Amanda was born on 13th January
1977,between 2300 to 2359.Her luck pillars are as follows:
Year Pillar: Fire Dragon (Earth)
Month Pillar: Metal Ox (Earth)
Day Pillar: Metal Horse (Fire)
Hour Pillar: Earth Rat (Water)
Amanda was born on a Metal day in an Earth month. Since Earth
strengthens Metal, her personal element is considered
strong. Besides being born in an Earth month, the Fire and Earth
elements are also present in other parts of her chart. This makes
her personal element, Metal extremely strong.
In Amanda's case, since her personal element is too strong, it
needs to be weakened in order for her luck cycle to be
smooth. Therefore, her favorable elements are Fire, Water and
Wood, since these three elements weaken Metal.
Since Fire represents her Husband element, marriage is favorable
to her. She will most likely marry someone who dotes on her. But
unfortunately, the Fire element in her chart is very weak. The
Fire element in her chart is at her day pillar, but it is
surrounded by Water (Hour Pillar) and Earth (Month Pillar), which
causes the Fire to become extremely weak.
So what does this mean? In her case, she will be able to find a
man who genuinely loves her, but this man will still leave her
because of some reasons. She will keep meeting good men, but the
relationship will somehow will not last. And why not?
The stability of her relationship depends on the strength of the
Fire element in her chart. If there are any elements from her
luck pillars which strengthen the Fire element in her chart, then
for the period of that luck pillar, her relationship will be
stable.
Now, let's look at her luck pillars:
1979-1988 Metal Rat (Water)
1989-1998 Earth Pig (Water)
1999-2008 Earth Dog (Earth)
2009-2018 Fire Rooster (Metal)
2019-2028 Fire Monkey (Metal)
Her House of Spouse, Horse (Fire) is being sabotaged by the
presence of Rat (Water). From here, we can see that her
relationships come and go easily. She may have a lot of
suitors, but they come and go as Fire is being destroyed by
Water.
Let's look at her luck pillars in detail. During the Earth Pig
pillar (1989-1998),Pig,Rat and Ox combine to form Water. The
strong Water destroys Fire. During this period, Amanda went
through many relationships, the shortest one lasted only for a
week, while the longest one lasted for 6 months. Things only
started to become more stable in 1998.
1998 was the Earth Tiger year. Tiger and Pig combine to form
Wood. In this case, since Tiger is present, the Water from the
Pig, Rat and Ox combination is weakened. Wood then acts as the
middleman between Fire and Water. Right now, Water starts to
strengthen Wood, which in turn strengthens Fire. Since Fire is
strengthened, we can safely say that Amanda has a high chance of
meeting Mr Right that year. Indeed, in 1998,Amanda had six
potential suitors and she chose only one of them, which is her Mr
Right.
The next luck pillar, Earth Dog spanned from 1999 to 2008.During
this luck pillar, Dog combines with Horse to form Fire. In this
case, the clash between Rat and Horse (day pillar and hour
pillar) is eliminated. With strong Fire, Amanda got married during
this luck pillar. She got married in 2005,after cohabiting with
Mr Right for a few years.
Unfortunately, this marriage may not last forever. As soon as the
Earth Dog pillar ends, things will start getting shaky because
the Rat and Horse clash is imminent again. You might ask, when
will this marriage end?
Most likely, it will end during the Fire Monkey pillar, as Monkey
combines with Rat and Dragon to form Water which will totally
destroy the weak Fire. But you might ask, how about the Fire from
the Fire Monkey pillar? Won't that help to alleviate things a
bit? Unfortunately not.
The Fire from the Fire Monkey pillar is Yang Fire. There is a Yin
Metal in her month pillar (Metal Ox) which will combine with the
Yang Fire in the Fire Monkey pillar to form Water, due to the
presence of Rat (Water) in her hour pillar.
Therefore, we can conclude that during the Fire Monkey
pillar, there is no Fire present at all. Since Fire represents her
husband, during that period, it is the time when her husband
leaves her.
At this point, you might ask again, can anything be done about
it? Yes, she can still take steps to increase the Fire element in
her daily life. You see, since Dog can combine with Horse to form
Fire, she can keep a pet Dog. In fact, I recommend keeping both a
Cat and a Dog.
I mentioned earlier that Monkey, Rat and Dragon combine to form
Water. The three animals which can combine to form Fire is
Tiger, Horse and Dog. In this case, it is impossible for her to
keep a Tiger as a pet. Since the Tiger belongs with the cat
family, keeping a Cat is equivalent to keeping a Tiger.
Of course, other Fire element activities will also help along the
process. She should be engaging in these Fire element activities
with her Husband. Things like sun tanning on the beach
together, movies, watching television as well as playing computer
games.
I certainly hope that she will be able to make her marriage
last. I wish Amanda all the best.