Basing On Her Birth Date, How
Many Times Will She Get Married?
In modern society, it is
very common for couples to divorce and remarry. Is it destiny
that some people get married only once, while others can get
married multiple times? And how many times exactly for those who
will get married multiple times?
Julie came to consult me one day. She had been through a few
marriages and hoped to find Mr Right. Her question is: "Will
this guy be the right one who will be with me for the rest of my
life?" OK, let's look at her date and hour of birth and analyze
from there. Julie was born on 31st December 1965, between
midnight to 1am. Her 4 pillars and luck pillars are as follows:
Year Pillar: Wood Snake
Month Pillar: Earth Rat
Day Pillar: Earth Sheep
Hour Pillar: Wood Rat
Since she is an Earth person, Wood represents her Husband. At a
glance, there are 2 Woods in her 4 pillars, but take a closer
look, there are actually 3 of them, because 1 of them is hidden
in the day pillar, Sheep. With 3 Woods in her 4 pillars, we can
see that her husband element is very strong. This explains why
she can marry, divorce and remarry again. But now, the question
is when will this cycle end? Let's look at her luck pillars...
From 1977 to 1986, she went through a luck pillar with Wood. The
presence of Wood in the luck pillar means there's a chance of
getting married. She got married in 1985 because she was
pregnant. 1985 was Wood Ox year, again, Wood was present.
Because both of them were immature, they ended up divorcing.
The next luck pillar, 1987 to 1996, is again a Wood luck pillar.
This means another opportunity of getting married. In 1995 (Wood
Pig year), she got involved with a professional. He wanted to
have kids with her, but he didn't accept her son from her
ex-husband. She was not allowed to bring along her son for
family gatherings. As a result, their relationship fell apart
because she felt bad leaving her son out of family gatherings.
This marriage lasted for about 10 years, and ended in divorce.
In 2004 (Wood Monkey year), she met her current partner. That
was when she started to have extra marital affairs. She waited
till her husband was overseas at work, she moved out to live
with this current partner. At the same time, she left a letter,
asking her husband for a divorce.
Her current partner is 13 years younger than her. He is willing
to accept her son as his own. 3 of them are very happy living
together. Julie is wondering if she should marry her current
partner. Will this marriage last for the rest of her life?
The answer is yes, she has met Mr Right. This marriage will last
her for the rest of her life. I asked Julie another question,
"Are your ex-husbands short? Is your current husband tall?"
Julie was shocked by my question. Indeed, her ex-husbands were
short, and her current husband is tall. How was I able to tell?
Let me share a secret with you here...
Among the 3 Woods in her 4 pillars, 2 of them were Yin and 1 of
them was Yang. Looking at the years she got married, 1985 was
Yin Wood, 1995 was also Yin Wood. 2004 was Yang Wood. The Yin
Wood represented the short ex-husbands while the Yang Wood
represented the current tall husband.
Another point to note, in her 4 pillars, the Yang Wood is at her
Hour Pillar. The Hour Pillar represents later in life, which
brings us to the conclusion that this current husband is the one
which will last her for the rest of her life.