Basing On Her Birth Date, How Many Times Will She Get Married?

 

In modern society, it is very common for couples to divorce and remarry. Is it destiny that some people get married only once, while others can get married multiple times? And how many times exactly for those who will get married multiple times?

Julie came to consult me one day. She had been through a few marriages and hoped to find Mr Right. Her question is: "Will this guy be the right one who will be with me for the rest of my life?" OK, let's look at her date and hour of birth and analyze from there. Julie was born on 31st December 1965, between midnight to 1am. Her 4 pillars and luck pillars are as follows:

Year Pillar: Wood Snake
Month Pillar: Earth Rat
Day Pillar: Earth Sheep
Hour Pillar: Wood Rat

Since she is an Earth person, Wood represents her Husband. At a glance, there are 2 Woods in her 4 pillars, but take a closer look, there are actually 3 of them, because 1 of them is hidden in the day pillar, Sheep. With 3 Woods in her 4 pillars, we can see that her husband element is very strong. This explains why she can marry, divorce and remarry again. But now, the question is when will this cycle end? Let's look at her luck pillars...

From 1977 to 1986, she went through a luck pillar with Wood. The presence of Wood in the luck pillar means there's a chance of getting married. She got married in 1985 because she was pregnant. 1985 was Wood Ox year, again, Wood was present. Because both of them were immature, they ended up divorcing.

The next luck pillar, 1987 to 1996, is again a Wood luck pillar. This means another opportunity of getting married. In 1995 (Wood Pig year), she got involved with a professional. He wanted to have kids with her, but he didn't accept her son from her ex-husband. She was not allowed to bring along her son for family gatherings. As a result, their relationship fell apart because she felt bad leaving her son out of family gatherings. This marriage lasted for about 10 years, and ended in divorce.

In 2004 (Wood Monkey year), she met her current partner. That was when she started to have extra marital affairs. She waited till her husband was overseas at work, she moved out to live with this current partner. At the same time, she left a letter, asking her husband for a divorce.

Her current partner is 13 years younger than her. He is willing to accept her son as his own. 3 of them are very happy living together. Julie is wondering if she should marry her current partner. Will this marriage last for the rest of her life?

The answer is yes, she has met Mr Right. This marriage will last her for the rest of her life. I asked Julie another question, "Are your ex-husbands short? Is your current husband tall?" Julie was shocked by my question. Indeed, her ex-husbands were short, and her current husband is tall. How was I able to tell?

Let me share a secret with you here...

Among the 3 Woods in her 4 pillars, 2 of them were Yin and 1 of them was Yang. Looking at the years she got married, 1985 was Yin Wood, 1995 was also Yin Wood. 2004 was Yang Wood. The Yin Wood represented the short ex-husbands while the Yang Wood represented the current tall husband.

Another point to note, in her 4 pillars, the Yang Wood is at her Hour Pillar. The Hour Pillar represents later in life, which brings us to the conclusion that this current husband is the one which will last her for the rest of her life.