How To Break The "Curse" Of The Hen-Pecked Man

 

This article is going to be interesting. I am writing this specially for men who are ruled over by their wives. By the end of this article, you will learn how to "break free" from being controlled by your wife. Before I give you the solution to break the "curse", let me give you some background on how does the hen-pecked man's 8 characters look like.

In Chinese Astrology, the element that your personal element destroys represent your wife. The first criteria to be a hen-pecked man is to have a weak personal element. What do I mean by a weak personal element? Your personal element is considered weak, if the element of the month you were born in weakens or destroys your personal element.

Let me give you an example. Let's say you were born on a Fire day in Winter. You probably know that Winter is a Water season, and that Fire is very weak in Winter. If there is no Wood or Fire in your 8 characters to strengthen your personal element (Fire), then you are very likely to end up as a hen-pecked man.

Looking at the above example again, as I mentioned earlier, the element that your personal element destroys represent your wife. In this case, since your personal element is Fire, your wife is represented by Metal (Fire destroys Metal).

Although basing on the cycle of destruction, Fire destroys Metal. But in this case, the Fire is already so weak, how can it destroy Metal? Most likely, it will be "put off" by the Metal. This is a typical case of a hen-pecked man's 8 characters. Now, basing on what I mentioned above, let me ask you a question. Do you think this man will keep a mistress outside?

From a logical point of view, you probably will say no, since he is fearful of his wife. Am I right? But for me, I would say that it depends on a few factors. Let me explain...

Although he is fearful of his wife, logically, he won't dare to look keep a mistress. However, there are 2 conditions which will help him have the "guts" to do so. Firstly, support from his friends or brothers. Secondly, support from his mother. Let me explain why.

In Chinese Astrology, friends and brothers represent the same element as the personal element. From my example above, your personal element is Fire, therefore the friends and brothers also represent Fire. With more Fire, you become "stronger" and you are able to destroy the Metal.

Now, what does the Mistress represent? The Mistress also represents Metal, just like the wife. Therefore, with more Fire, you are able to "control" the Metal.

Next question, what does the Mother have to do with all these? Plenty. In Chinese Astrology, the element which strengthens your personal element represents your Mother. Again, in the example above, your personal element is Fire, therefore Wood represents your Mother.

With Wood strengthening Fire, the Fire will be strong enough to "control" the Metal. Therefore, basing on the example above, if you wish to find a mistress, you need the support of your friends, brothers and mother. You won't be able to do it alone.

After saying all that, the next question comes to mind. What if your mother, friends and brothers are not around? No worries, there is one more way out for you. It is very simple. You just need to put on weight. When you put on weight, you are also strengthening your personal element. This also explains why some people just can't slim down.

When they slim down, they start to have all kinds of funny illnesses or even some kind of bad luck. If your personal element is weak, you should always try to remain fat, so that you are able to maintain your good luck. Sounds unbelievable? Just see for yourself.

Back to our main topic. So let's say you want to remain faithful to your wife, but you just don't want her to control you. What can you do to break the "curse" of being a hen-pecked man? Here are a few solutions...

Firstly, stay together with your mother. Get her to stay with you and your wife. It may be unlikely that your wife will agree. If she doesn't agree, then make it a point to visit your mother often and have dinner with her. And what if your mother is no longer around? In that case, invite your brothers or friends to visit you at your home more often.

As long as your mother, brothers or friends are around you, you are unlikely to be hen-pecked, as your personal element is strengthened. If all that fails, you might want to put on some weight. What if you can't put on weight?

OK, here's the last resort: You need to strengthen the effect of your favorable elements from your daily activities. For the example above, you need to strengthen Wood and Fire. And how do you do that? It is simple, just refer to my monthly newsletter's luck enhancing tips section.

Before I end, if you are a wife reading this, you know what you need to do to prevent your husband from straying.