The Truth Behind The Old
Superstition Of A Wife Bringing Misfortune To Her Husband
In the olden days, many
prospective in-laws will consult fortune tellers to see if their
future daughters-in-law will bring their sons luck. Back then,
the fortune teller's verdict will determine whether a woman will
get married at all. Some women were "labeled" as trouble. They
were said to bring misfortune or even death to their husbands.
As a result, these poor women are being condemned. Some of them
stay single throughout their lives because no one wanted to
marry them. In other extreme cultures, these women were being
stoned or burned to death. Unfortunately, some of these fortune
tellers were being paid to tell lies. Because of these lies,
lives are being ruined.
As a practitioner of feng shui and chinese astrology, I was
curious about this superstition. Is it really true that a woman
can bring misfortune to her husband and even death? I decided to
do a research on this matter. For many years, I wasn't able to
find an answer, until sometime in 2003...
In 2003,a client of mine asked me about her friend. She told me
that her friend was "suffering" from poor romance luck. This
friend was attractive and had many guys after her. But the
relationship never lasted, she went from boyfriend to boyfriend
to boyfriend and it was all short term. My client asked me
whether something could be done about it...
I did an analysis on her date of birth, and it was exactly the
type of 8 characters which "will bring misfortune" to her
husband. I will list out the 8 characters here and you will be
able to learn how does the whole thing work.
This client's friend was born on 24th June 1985,between 3am to
5am.Her 8 characters are as follows...
Year Pillar: Wood Ox
Month Pillar: Water Horse
Day Pillar: Wood Horse
Hour Pillar: Fire Tiger
In her case, the element that represents her husband/boyfriend
is Metal. At a glance, there is totally no Metal in her 8
characters. Instead, there is a lot of Fire and Wood (Horse
In this case, too much Fire
destroys Metal, which means that her boyfriend/husband is being
"destroyed" by Fire. In olden days, this type of 8 characters
are the "condemned" cases, as these women were believed to bring
misfortune to their husbands.
In this case, my analysis was that my client's friend will never
be able to get into a stable relationship with any guy, because
the strong Fire destroys the Metal. Her relationship luck will
only be smooth during Autumn and Winter. When Spring comes, she
will run into problems with her relationship. Summer, things
will be at their worst.
Another interesting thing to note is the presence of the 2 Sex
Stars in her 8 characters. Since she was born under the Ox sign,
her Sex Star is represented by Horse.
As you can see above, there
are 2 Horses in her 8 characters, in her day and month pillar.
This also means that she is very popular among the opposite sex.
However, her Sex Star represents her unfavorable element, Fire.
This means that her sex life is not satisfactory.
According to my client, she sleeps around with many guys, but
none of them are serious about her. My client told me that she
gave sex to get love from her "boyfriends".
Her situation is quite
tough as the Fire in her 8 characters is too strong. In order
for her to "find the right guy", she will need to increase the
effect of Water in her daily life, and also to look for someone
born in Winter. I hope that she has already found the right guy.